Our lifestyles are out of control

Sivaramakrishnan A By Sivaramakrishnan A, 29th Mar 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/3eup_9yz/
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We are into lifestyles that are getting out of control ignoring basic value systems. They invite one disaster after another and led without a thought of tomorrow. They lead to many a slip between the cup full of hope and achievement and the lip anxiously seeking a life of fulfillment.

Chasing Mirage

We are enslaved by herd mentality. As money is an essential factor for a happy life, educational pursuits are guided by those that net best returns. Generally, we neglect to choose our vocation that are after our hearts but influenced by what others pursue, thereby, becoming blind followers despite having the choice to decide own path. Soon we realize our lives are drifting away from our control that leads to frustration. Though economically it may not make much sense, it is better to have careers that pay less than be entrapped in unhappy & unfulfilling jobs.

Very few are into jobs that make them feel they are not working for a living, but pursuing and enjoying their lifelong passion! But for most, it is harsh reality of daily life with the reward system skewed in favor of those jobs that make money out of thin air! The fallout from pursuing such a reckless lifestyle lands on innocent citizens time and again. The rampant speculations led by greed by even those who do not understand the products they deal in bring many to grief; the mad scramble to recoup losses leads to further disaster. Finally, somebody has to pick up the tab - and that is you and me!

Issues crying out for attention

It takes a happy person to make others happy! But when the best brains are wired into a make-believe world with enticing lives of indulgence, humanity regresses in the value systems; then crimes, deceit and hypocrisy hold sway. They attack at the very roots of a sound society Living beyond means is also encouraged through easy availability of loans. Future earnings are pledged to live up the present, repay past liabilities. In a way, we are leaving our future generations in debt & to repay our debts!

Human ingenuity should not be curbed but channeled into those that is of value to the society in general; a duty of the government and enlightened leaders. Wise counsel should prevail than giving in to a charmed life that comes to grief sooner or later! However with the passage of time, moral fiber of those who govern has eroded & they play along. In the end, we all chase mirages knowing full well that the make-believe world will collapse around us. Some may even argue that life is short, so has to be lived & enjoyed! All play along the roads that may not lead to Rome, but certainly to doom!

Our future is getting hazy with each passing day when no one is in control. Despite the clear writing on the wall, none wants to heed the warning signs and bent upon following the modern Pied Piper of Hamelin – the lure of wealth for its own sake, a one way path to grief! The whole world is getting more entwined by the day through economic integration with similar lifestyles - make hay when the sun shines. Past is history, future should take care of itself; then why worry while at the present!

Writing on the wall for change in direction

Are we not leaving a mountain of issues that we just ignore or lack the will to tackle? The environmental degradation, nuclear disarmament, arms race, climate change, water scarcity – name it, they just stare at our face. We go from one conference to another pushing the agenda around with solution never found at least on time. At the same time, the time bomb is ticking relentlessly. Our leaders are busy politicking at our cost in times of our dire need, sadly, just like Nero, who fiddled while Rome burned! Life could have been so much more meaningful for the most disadvantaged if we just bothered to wake up to realities. It is sadly a tale of many a slip between the cup full of achievement and the anxious lip seeking life of fulfillment that is within our grasp. It requires just a change of heart to fulfill our promise.

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Arms Race, Climate Change, Environmental Destruction, Lifestyle, Nuclear Weapons, Values, Water Scarcity

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author avatar Buzz
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Our evolution as humans seems headed for the wrong direction, my friend. Thanks for sharing your wisdom again, siva-ji.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Thanks Buzz, you are always so encouraging. It is like - everyone complains about the weather, but no one does anything about it! But we should change direction for the better and is also our bounden duty to future generations - siva

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author avatar Madan G Singh
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Yes Siva, the world is changing. Great post

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
30th Mar 2012 (#)

For the better, hopefully! Thanks Madan for your support - siva

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author avatar Don Rothra
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Nice work, Siva

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Thanks again Don, for your support - siva

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author avatar Ms. Ann
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Siva, You are such an insightful man. Truly we write about the same things-just from different perspectives. I love what you have to offer. We should heed to what you have to say-you strengthen my personal resolve. Thanks!

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Thanks Ms Ann, for the encouragement. I feel strongly that we miss the boat bound for a meaningful life and happy to go around in endless circles. We have to get out of the rut as when hope is lost, we lose our bearings - siva

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author avatar rama devi nina
30th Mar 2012 (#)

I agree with Ann, Siavaji--You're insightful--and articulate. A much needed combination. I'm always pleased to see you wake up calls in these postings and hope many read them Namaste- rd

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Thanks Rama-ji, for your never-failing support. My repertoire could get repetitive, but I feel we strongly that we fail to live up to our promises. We can find heaven right here and that is what the Creator intended - giving us enough and much more. And how mother earth bends over backwards to satiate our unquenchable thirst, nay avarice! siva

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
30th Mar 2012 (#)

Wjhen I see that you have posted an article, Siva, I always look forward to drinking from the cup of your infinite wisdom, and you never disappoint.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
31st Mar 2012 (#)

Thanks Steve. I just reflect on the happenings around me and find most hoping against hope that good sense will prevail sooner than later. What else a common citizen can do other than share some thoughts - siva

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author avatar Ivyevelyn, R.S.A.
31st Mar 2012 (#)

Siva: I am so pleased to read, for the first time, one of your pages. I have to be sure that I am, in fact, receiving them. I am certainly one of your followers. I recognize that much of what you say is towards my way of thinking. Have you noticed how the gas mask resembles the features of the world's earliest man? Thanks for including me.
Ivyevelyn.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
31st Mar 2012 (#)

Thanks Ivy for finding and reading my work and for your perceptive comment - siva

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author avatar Ivyevelyn, R.S.A.
31st Mar 2012 (#)

Siva: Actually, Siva, I hoped you might look at one of my earlier pages.
http://nut.bz/sdb.q.69/

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
31st Mar 2012 (#)

I have read and commented on few of your latest, Ivy. I shall visit your earlier ones and I am sure they will enlighten me on many facets of your life - siva

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author avatar jotomy
31st Mar 2012 (#)

You are right, many changes in the nature / atmosphere.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
31st Mar 2012 (#)

Thanks jotomy, for reading and your comment - siva

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author avatar Delicia Powers
5th Apr 2012 (#)

Wonderful written, thank you Siva!

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
5th Apr 2012 (#)

Thanks for your support and welcome back, Delicia - siva

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author avatar jennyreeve
7th Apr 2012 (#)

What a wonderfully insightful pice. Thank you fro sharing this with us all.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
8th Apr 2012 (#)

Thanks Jenny for your visit and comments - siva

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author avatar Judy Ellen
10th Apr 2012 (#)

It is so sad that we as a society are headed in the wrong direction. Someday as you put it, we will have to pay the piper!! I hope I am not here when that happens! Thankyou for sharing!!!

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
10th Apr 2012 (#)

The sad part is we refuse to heed the signs. We know we are going overboard, refuse to take corrective steps and carry on blithely. Thanks for your comment, Judy - siva

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