Social Life.... Extinct!
By RitaH, 28th Jul 2010 | Follow this author
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Here in my virtual diary I show you how my social life was very busy, very quiet and how I mean to get it back!!!
Before..
So my life was a major BUZZ of activity!!! Phone would be on the go CONSTANTLY… So had to turn it off to get some peace!! Friends would be out every weekend. Friday, Saturday AND Sunday. Meeting during the week and gossip would be going on and on!!
But all that slowed down due to friends coming and going, getting older and not being into gossip, fiancé not enjoying staying up to make sure I get home safely from a night out, disliking me drunk and very unhappy with the fella’s that have an attraction for me. When I thought they was friends!!! I suddenly realised that they liked me in the wrong way…. And they would be unhappy with being with my fiancé or would suggest having fun without him being around… I was so naïve!!!!
During....
So for all the things I was realising and growing up as well, I had to let a lot of people go… Due to moving on, growing up, not wanting the attention and for one ex – wanting him to move on :’-(
I had to let him go for he was supposed to be getting married… I am getting married and he was still ringing and texting me at stupid o’clock drunk and declaring his undying love for me. I cherished our friendship as he meant a lot to me… but for his sake and mine… I felt it was time for him to let me go by me letting him go. He said he had moved on when I got with my boyfriend at the time but he didn’t want to tell me till he was sure I had moved on… he got back with his ex… again!!! And with the fact we had split due to me not feeling for him anymore in that way, he wanted to see that I had moved on…!! HA!!!
But to find he had got back with an ex again it didn’t faze me. I was happy with who I was with and so was he. So he moved away and I moved on before getting a new bf.
So once he had moved, he would text and ring telling me that he stilled loved me, will always love me, wished he had never given me up and wanted to see me in my wedding dress. But it is for the best that we parted ways.
I haven’t heard from him but do wonder if he is finally moved on and finally settle down… Without me in his mind!! Wish him luck though and love to his daughters who I had taken under my wing so to speak!
After....
Now I have moved in with my fiancé and have few friends in this area… I miss my best friend and the Stafford Crew… :-( They are the best friends to ever have!!! Fun, bubbly and there or you when you are down! Love them very muchly!!!
With moving, I haven’t checked out the local clubbing scene yet. And with the few friends I have here, they aren’t really the clubby type!! All older than me, all busy with work etc and kind of grown out of clubbing n going out really!!
So with that, my fiancé is HAPPY that I don’t keep him p till 4am when I am out… He can’t sleep when I am out and he texts me during the night too!! Quite sad really. Cute at first but after a year of it, kind of thinking that it is more him feeling paranoid more than anything else!
Now I stay in quite a lot, go out to friends houses, with him in tow and have been out on my own 2 maybe 3 times in the space of a year and a half!! I encourage him to go out without me and he is starting to get the hint!!! It’s not healthy to have a social life in his bedroom!! Have a social life in the FRESH air for goodness sake!!! Get some sun and let me go out without u!!! We can’t go out together forever!!!
With this being stamped down, I am going to start going out more… Without him, with or without other friends and start making friends around this place!!
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