Building Confidence

Sarah Hussain By Sarah Hussain, 28th Jan 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/1poh4wty/
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While depending upon others, you miss many opportunities to discover your self, to establish the confidence in your personality. Depending on family and friends for happiness is not a question here as it also makes our personality. What I am talking here is about depending on others, for the tasks you ought to do yourself.

Outcomes Of Being Dependent

While in class, or while in a society, even in a gathering .... If you are shy, you depend on the person by your side to make a step forward. You stick to a corner to avoid getting anyone's attention.
But this actually kills your part of personality .. The part which makes you confident to face the public, gathering ..
In a class or lab, if you do not take part in activities while depending on your fellows to do all the work and copying it later, you miss the opportunity of having your hands on work.

Groom Your Personality

First of all: hook yourself up by your collar, you yourself are responsible of how you want to make yourself look to people.
Be positive, and be sure about what you have to say and do.

How To Approach YourSelf

You are what you think about yourself

What others think about you depends on how you see yourself, Not on how others see you in a state.
If you are clear about your own state of mind, you will be comfortable in every aspect.

You Are Unique

Stop comparing yourself with others
You have your own complete personality setup, and no two people are made alike.
You yourself are unique in your conduct and behaviour.

Tags

Self Awareness, Self Confidence, Self Improvement, Self-Discovery, Self-Worth

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author avatar Sarah Hussain
Pharmacist by profession.
And interested in multiple domains.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
28th Jan 2015 (#)

Practical advice, thanks Sarah. This should be taught in school to leave a good and lifelong impression. Looks do not matter - it is how live that matters - siva

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author avatar Nancy Czerwinski
28th Jan 2015 (#)

Great article! Thank you for sharing.

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author avatar Ghazal Hussain
29th Jan 2015 (#)

nice work, please share more stuff like this

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