Bullying

K_La By K_La, 6th Dec 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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I am always bothered to bullies! I get irritated when I saw someone who is being bullied, I get so lonely when I read articles and stories of a young girl/boy who dies of suicide because of bullies! So I wrote an article on how to deal with bullies. Useful advices for people who are experiencing bullying.

Why do bullies act that way?

• Merely because some bullies came from a family where their parents are always shouting and yelling all the time. They grow up where their family’s lifestyles are full anger and inappropriate manners. Their parents had lack of control and discipline to their children. Because of this, their children adopt these kinds of behaviors which turn into violence or bullying.

• Lack of attention. Some bullies lacks attention which is why they are acting that way. Maybe they came into a family where their parents don’t have time for them. That’s why they keep on doing horrible stuffs to schools so they will be sent to principal’s office and get their parents called.

• For popularity. Some bullies felt that bullying is a way to have many friends or in boy’s cases, girlfriends. They have these idea where bullying will gain them authority and respect. This is also their way to make someone do things they don’t want to do or are lazy to do.

How to deal with bullies?

This is the most important part. Bullies pick someone they think they can control, someone who looks scared all the time, someone who is small, too thin and too chubby. But whether you are a small, thin or a chubby person, you don’t deserve to be bullied. Everyone deserves to have friends, to have fun and to be respected. So when you encountered a bully, here is what you have to do…

Stand tall and be brave- when a bully threatens you, show them you are not scared. Always feel he best about yourself. Do not hide or skip classes, make them feel you’re comfortable even though they are around. Don’t give them a chance to bully you again, tell them not to mess up with you. Showing them bravery and uneasy to be messed with, makes them scared also.
Ignore the bully – You must ignore them. Do not listen to everything they are about to say to you, ignore everything they ask you to do. Do not follow their commands. You have to try your best to do these things. Because sooner or later, they will get tired of teasing and pushing you around. And eventually, the will just stop.

Make friends- You have to make friends. Bullies pick people who don’t have friends or do not socialize with others. This is because they find it easy to bully someone who doesn’t have anyone for back up. Having friends is a huge help to lessen your worries and makes you comfortable anywhere.

Stand up for yourself- Stand up for yourself even if you’re standing alone. When a bully comes in your way and teases you or attempts to push you, be confident enough to say “Stand back!” or “Get out of my way!” then walk away with your head held high. Do not think that someone will back you up, or your friends will help you. Bullies pick people who look scared and cannot stick up for themselves.

Inform an adult- Yes, you can stand up for yourself, but telling an adult is the safest and fastest way. Inform your teachers, principal and parents. Sometimes bullies begin to stop when their teacher or principal finds out. They are afraid they will be punished by their parents or some bullies are concerned of their grades also. They are afraid they might fail their grades or get expelled in school.


In the end, most bullies stop being bullies. They are afraid that if they don’t change, they might have few friends or they will ended up being alone and being bullied by someone. Some bullies change for the positive way and turned into a jolly and helpful kid. But there are some bullies who don’t just learn. Either way, you block the enjoyment of your life when you allow your fear to grow bigger than your rights. So deal with the bullies!

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Bullying, Bullying Fear, Bullying In The Schools, Bullying Schools, Bullying Stoping, Bullying Stopping, Bullying Victims

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
6th Dec 2012 (#)

Good for you K La for writing this...let us hope some bullies will sit up and listen...thank you

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author avatar K_La
7th Dec 2012 (#)

Thank you cnwriter! :)

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
7th Dec 2012 (#)

Bullies are everywhere but know how to stand up to them. My way, though learned over time, is have self-confidence. Thanks for a nice post, K. La - siva

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author avatar K_La
8th Dec 2012 (#)

Thank you mr. siva have a nice day! :)

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author avatar Retired
29th Dec 2012 (#)

Thanks for the insight, success for your article

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