Constructive Criticism

juny By juny, 2nd Sep 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Constructive criticism is not the same as revile. Critic/s wants you to change and not to bring you down.

Attitude

You feel bad when someone criticized you, especially when criticism comes from a person who never knows the real you, right? You feel that, that person had stepped on your ego, when it’s not what the person meant to convey. Oftentimes criticism perceived with negative thoughts, when the critic/s only wants you to understand the areas where you need to change and improve. Acceptance is the key to improve oneself. Learn to admit mistake/s and never let pride empowered you, keep calm and understand every word before bursting into anger, or you will regret everything without knowing the goodness behind the criticism.

A stranger critic

Constructive criticism doesn’t always come from your family, loved ones or friends. Sometimes constructive criticism comes from a stranger has deeper meaning than criticism from someone whom you knew personally. You maybe wonder why and how was that? It is given, and a common knowledge that your family, loved ones and friends are always there to give you support , boost your confidence because they want you to bring out the best in you, or make you changed into a better person or excel in your field. But, a criticism from a stranger has the real essence of the word constructive criticism. You never knew the person yet he knows you can change, and you can improve because this stranger sees the inner in you which your family and friends overlooked, due to closeness and togetherness that they are already used to what you are, and who you are.

“Acceptance will lead you to change”

It is an instinct to defend your self after receiving a criticism. To cover up your mistake, you passed the blame to other person. Why? Because, you are not ready, to accept any correction from someone you never knew personally. Remember that, constructive criticism is not the same with revile. Criticism is to make change, to made you analyzed and realized your mistake/s and not to let you down, not to worsen the situation either. Set aside your pride, too much pride will never lead you to change, instead, accept criticism as a challenge, and the solution is very simple.


“Acceptance will lead you to change”

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Behavior Modification, Behaviors, Criticism, Critics

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author avatar Retired
5th Sep 2011 (#)

well critiquing is an art where facts are reported for their intrinsic worth and not for the sake of letting down the person who might have been responsible for commission or ommission of facts.His or her accountability may or may not follow.So critiquing is essentially helping holistically.Lovely write you have in here.

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author avatar juny
5th Sep 2011 (#)

hello Shishir,

Thanks for the appreciation and reading my page.

Have a good day :)

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author avatar Retired
5th Sep 2011 (#)

my pleasure

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author avatar Delicia Powers
6th Sep 2011 (#)

Very well said...

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author avatar juny
6th Sep 2011 (#)

hello Delicia,

Thanks for your comment ma'am :)

Good day :)

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author avatar Tranquilpen
6th Sep 2011 (#)

Most enlightening, thank you Oh.

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author avatar Gee
8th Sep 2011 (#)

well written. :)

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