Courted One Timer

Andres Fragoso Jr By Andres Fragoso Jr, 17th Nov 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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The Courted One Timer
How do you write the Courted One Timer, without making look like a poor, defenseless, child with no help? Or an sensitive fem.

Who is the Courted One Timer

This person is usually a feminine gay. One who is sensitive and naïve, also very trusting, very open and sometimes motherly nature. He is the kind of guy that loves to take care of people and help them out. Always bending over backwards to help a friend in need. Sometimes to the point of hurting himself first.

Getting together

When he meets a straight man he respects him above all else. Doesn't make a pass at him. Sometimes seems off handed because he’s very careful of what he does or says. He makes straight friends because he likes to take care of people and doesn’t want to be in all the gay drama. To him straight guys are safe. They won’t make a pass at him and are genuinely wanting to be his friend without trying to sleep with him. They seek out the friendship that comes from a straight man and not the inflexibility of most gay men.


Because the courted one is sensitive and likes the attention he feeds into that need. He provides the courter with understanding, no judgement and compassion. He's just as confused as the courter. They're both not sure of what’s happening. If they were secure about themselves, they would not have this problem. Just because your character is gay, doesn’t mean he’s not human.


Courted, Fem, Friend, Gay, Homosexual, One Nighter

Meet the author

author avatar Andres Fragoso Jr
Andres is an avid reader and writer. As a gay man he works hard when writing to promote non-stereotypical gay personification.

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