Do Not Expect Others To Change For You First!

InduKr By InduKr, 19th Sep 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/bisieg0f/
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Every person has different personality and belief. They respond or behave according to that. Most of us expect a lot of things from others, but never try to set an example first.There is a child within everyone and like a child (I am not saying it is 100% correct but most of the time you find it works)they like to follow what you do not what you say.

Set An Example For Others

On bubblews everyday I make few new friends and good thing is that everyone teaches me a new lesson of life. It is invaluable, no other place I encounter with till now where you will learn immensely without spending a dime. Few days back I was going through my notification list during that I saw a comment on one of my article. Actually I noticed that very easily because most of the bubblers were agree with my point of view about a topic. As usual here I am not going to tell about my that article and name of that person who has commented on my article to hide the identity of that person. Although it could give me some more views to me on that article but someone’s privacy is more valuable than the money I could earn here.
Now back to the discussion, when I found that he/she is not agree with my point of view and not happy with other bubbler's response, I didn't took it in a wrong manner. Suddenly I started thinking that somewhere me too respond in that manner in some particular situations of my own life. It's human nature that everybody reacts or responds in different manner in same situations. It depends on various factors. It doesn't mean that the person is right or wrong. It's our point of view which decides how we tackle any situation/person in our life. Comment of that person really helped to understand that do not expect others to change for you. It will be better that you first set an example for what you expect from others. Believe me it will take time but it works. In our life, even on bubblews too, if you want that other bubbler read your posts, respond on them first you take out time from your schedule to do that then expect it from others :). Hope I am not saying anything wrong, if isn't what's your opinion?

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Behavior, Expectation, Ideology, Set An Example

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author avatar InduKr
Hi! Basically I am a housewife but doing full time online job. I love writing content for blogs.I love writing on business,beauty, health,insurance/finance and food.

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author avatar Stella Mitchell
20th Sep 2013 (#)

There will always be some people who do not agree with everything we say InduKr, but we have to accept that and in many cases agree to disagree then move on . Life is a learning curve for all of us , and that is what makes it interesting .
God bless you
Stella

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author avatar InduKr
20th Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you for comment Mam.It is a learning process for me too,trying to make the world better from my side.

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author avatar Delicia Powers
20th Sep 2013 (#)

Very wise InduKr- being true to self is the key to contentment...

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author avatar InduKr
20th Sep 2013 (#)

Thank You Mam for reading my article.

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
20th Sep 2013 (#)

a lot of wisdom here Indukr...

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author avatar InduKr
20th Sep 2013 (#)

Yes Mam, I can understand.

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author avatar Fern Mc Costigan
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Bravo Indukr, excellent piece with a lot of mesage! By teh way in teh picture if thats your little girl, shes a very cute littel girl , my blessings to you an your family!

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author avatar InduKr
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Yes,she is my baby :).Thank you so much for your blessings Fern.

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