Good Manners. J.C.Hill. Essay. Reintroduced

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We are staying on this planet only for a very short time. Before it is a hundred years, our times are out. We will never see those who we live with again in our lives. Perhaps we will never see a human face again. This is our only chance to see, acquaint with and deal with human beings. So why not behave politely, and please them and help them? A famous British writer's observations are reintroduced here.

Are you a Boy-Scout? No, I am an egg on toast.

The famous writer J.C.Hill has written a few things on the various factors constituting what good manners are. Men are fragile things come to live in this dangerous world. We are unimportant humble little human beings who shall not pass this way again. During our short stay here, we should help the world as much as we can. A child would not be knowing about the sufferings of his parents, which they would not be willing to tell him. So children should make life easy for them. Good manners come from sympathy with others and from understanding our own limitations. We should strain and train ourselves to remain calm before irritating questions. Once when an old lady, seeing his dress, asked a little boy whether he was a Boy Scout, he was irritated and rudely barked that he was 'two eggs on toast'. She only meant how nice he looked in a nice uniform and there was really nothing silly in her remark. This is considered improper behaviour towards older people.

Good listeners get enough time to think so that when they speak, they can speak clearly.

Suppose an old man is crossing a young racing cyclist very slowly. The speeding cyclist would be annoyed and irritated at this unexpected obstacle and barricade on his way. Do not scold him for being that slow. He may be weak and losing his agility. A healthy young man who never cared for others once became seriously ill and when he recovered, he was very weak and had to remain so for a few days. Even walking became very difficult for him. It was then that he realized the misery of weak and old people who get no seats in transport buses. He will get back his strength someday but those old people will never get back their's. So from then onwards he promptly gave up seats for the weak and aged in buses. While in company, we should be very careful in observing good manners. We should speak clearly and sufficiently loud for others to hear us. It is our duty to make ourselves understood. And do not talk too much. Always give others a chance to speak.

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author avatar PSRemeshChandra
4th Jul 2011 (#)

When I am walking a way, sometimes I would see old men, women and sick people on the way who strain to walk. I know how they would feel when somebody passes them from the back in full health, vigour of strength and agility of body, for I am a quick walker. So I slacken my steps in whatever hurryand urgent need may I be, so that they may think they are not the only persons who have lost strength. It is our duty not to make them offended, hurt and pining in hearts for their lost health.

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
5th Jul 2011 (#)

Very nice article. Thank you.

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
5th Jul 2011 (#)

Very nice article. Thank you.

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author avatar N.sudhakar
28th Oct 2016 (#)

thank you very much. It gives a great value for youngesters,whohave forget their value of goodmanners

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author avatar PSRemeshChandra
5th Jul 2011 (#)

Thank you Steve Kinsman for reading it. I have gone through and very much enjoyed your works. I am trying to improve myself to stand in level.

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author avatar SwathySundharamurthy
2nd Nov 2015 (#)

Gives a great value for youngsters , who had lost their value of good manners .....great work

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author avatar PSRemeshChandra
17th Feb 2016 (#)

Values have not yet totally departed from this world. Good articles by good writers written at a time when values were of paramount importance circulate among us and inspire and prompt us to keep values.

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author avatar SwathySundharamurthy
2nd Nov 2015 (#)

Awsome article .......Gives a great values for youngsters like us, who had lost their value good manner . A big hands of aplas.

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author avatar Surya kumar
2nd Nov 2015 (#)

really it is a great article its very interesting story i like it very much its very usefull to youngster

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author avatar PSRemeshChandra
17th Feb 2016 (#)

It is youngsters who get the most from good articles, for they have much time before them to live up to those ideals highlighted in those articles.

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author avatar Rajesh kumar
18th Feb 2016 (#)

Sir , can you summarize it ??

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author avatar N. sudhakar
3rd Aug 2016 (#)

This article has a great value for the youngsters. They can read and show kind and sympathy towards weak and old aged people

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author avatar N.sudhakar
28th Oct 2016 (#)

Iam trying to improve myself

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author avatar Shahista
5th Nov 2016 (#)

its a whole some message to tis 4G generation

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author avatar Satheesh
22nd Nov 2016 (#)

good conmment

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author avatar Satheesh
22nd Nov 2016 (#)

nice one

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author avatar Satyam anand
25th Apr 2017 (#)

It refresh our mind

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author avatar PSRemeshChandra
19th Jul 2018 (#)

I am deleting a few paragraphs from this post. The full post can be read in my blog Sahyadri Books Trivandrum in Blogspot.

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author avatar Nishant Lonkar
8th Oct 2018 (#)

I want to know more about the original author of this essay, J. C. Hills. I want a photo of him, I have to complete a assignment. Thank you.

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author avatar Ravinder Kumar
7th Apr 2019 (#)

I am trying to improve myself

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