Love for love

karasiwo23 By karasiwo23, 18th Jan 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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There was a time when people were promised to each other since little niggling. There are still cultures that maintain this way of thinking. In our society, however, this custom has long since been eradicated. We then have complete freedom to follow in the footsteps of our hearts

Love for love


There was a time when people were promised to each other since little niggling. There are still cultures that maintain this way of thinking. In our society, however, this custom has long since been eradicated. We then have complete freedom to follow in the footsteps of our hearts.

But the idea that love comes with time still on the minds of many people. Many parents tried to convince children to marry with people they pleased with the excuse that "love comes with time." And it still happens today.

Parents who want to decide "what's best for the children" I say it's better to let every heart find their own half. We all want the best for our children, and most know that we can never get inside their hearts and feel what they feel.

Thus, many now marry for many reasons other than love, loneliness, need, interest, etc., thinking that love will come with time.

Love is a decision? Oh no! That would be too simple and even solve the problem of many people unhappy in the marriage. People might resign, making efforts to give the best of themselves ... but love, not decide so. Love does not demand, it happens.

One day we discovered that our heart beats before someone rushed; discovered we think that person all the time and it makes us lack when it is present; realize that someone occupies a different space inside us unlike anyone else .. . and we concluded that we were hit by this sweet maladia that has the power to make us the happiest or most miserable of beings. We find loving!

No! Do not order heart rushed, nor thought, nor intense desire to be with someone. And not this feeling of being in front of the beloved, we might even die with love, not the love that makes us feel a desire to be inexplicable and unstoppable in each others arms and that, that moment arrived, we have the feeling that do not need anything else to live ...

This time does not.

What comes with time is friendship, affection, security, companionship and the habit of being with the other person. All this makes up part of love, but love is not the same. Many can be satisfied with that and get a lifetime with someone without experiencing another form of love, others dreamers, they prefer to wait Cupid really knock on the door to be, how should the divine desire, two in one flesh.

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