Move on, Dear Heart! Move On.

Pollyal By Pollyal, 25th May 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/2t2mmleh/
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Every Moment, Good or Bad, Passes. But Sometimes our heart clings on to some moments of the past. Is that what causes all the pain or is that what gives us hope?

When times are hard

Life is very complex and sometimes situations are out of our control. At such moments, we yearn for a better future. But the only way to know what lies in the future is to move on. When times, which seems unbearable, makes the heart fearful; the only way out is to move on. Although the heart might want to cling to some good incidents of the past which it treasures, yet, relapsing to the past will not help. In fact, it might make the hard times look harder.Relapsing to past times or fretting on the present never helps. Facing and accepting the reality of the current situation is the first step. The second step is to move on, move on to whatever is to come; move on to face a few more unexpected turns, move on to welcome those who are yet to come.

May Experiences be your Shield!

Sometimes the heart wants to give up, the heart feels like it has gone through too much. But giving up is not so easy if your heart is not completely selfish. So the heart continues to push through another moment, another day. At such times, the only thing the heart wants is to be alone and drown itself in memories - good memories, memories of such times which will give it courage. Sometimes the heart just would not want to face the reality. Sometimes it would not want to stop remembering the past, because it fears it might forget those golden times. But the only thing that the heart should be reminded when is becomes such a cry baby is that through those times it had earned experiences. Those experiences will make the heart wise for the future. Every moment is like a shell from which we should take the pearl of experience.
Hence, instead of clinging to old times, the heart should look forward. Time never stops neither does life, and so dear heart, move on with all your might. Let experiences be your shield.

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Better, Clinging, Complex, Courage, Future, Heart, Life, Look Forward, Move On, Past, Unbearable, Wise

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
25th May 2014 (#)

The truth of the heart is that the body moves forward but the emotions don't you just lie to yourself and that is about it, you break yourself down internally while externally you fool the world that you are enjoying yourself. You are not and when the pain becomes excruciating, that is when you breakdown and weep but by then most of the time, its usually too late as you have moved on into a point and destination of no return. Thanks but no thanks, my heart stays true to the dream within and the love that nestles within.
Good luck with your moving on. As said A Rolling Stone gathers no moss. I am happier where I am blooming where I am planted. If the planet were to move on would you still be alive??? Think wisely and answer. Its No for obvious reasons no other supports human lifeforms so take care and preserve what you have rather than revolving round one night stands and get in on for a quickie, searching for love the Rolling Stone Way....

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author avatar Pollyal
29th May 2014 (#)

#Lady Aiyanna -> Life is all about being happy. Everybody is trying to discover ways of being happy. Some find happiness where they are some find it with new experiences (And i dont mean night stands and having boy/girl friends are the only experiences) I have found that when it hurt most, finding a new job, a new home, a new locality helped..Staying at the same place might have made be just sad for some longer time..But then, it was just me..everyone has a unique story to tell :)

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
25th May 2014 (#)

Carpe diem - seize the day - serves us well. We have to attune our heart and mind to such an attitude of positive energy - siva

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author avatar Pollyal
29th May 2014 (#)

Thanks Siva :) Attuning to positive energy is also a process ..a slow one ..atleast for me it was

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author avatar Phyl Campbell
27th May 2014 (#)

Where are the pictures? I want eye candy!! :)

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author avatar Pollyal
29th May 2014 (#)

#Phyl Campbell -> I never find the right pictures :( I will try to work on adding eye candies now :) Thanks

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author avatar Legend
9th Jun 2015 (#)

Looking for the good makes it better!

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author avatar Pollyal
12th Jun 2015 (#)

Thanks for dropping by Legend

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