My Internet Dating Experience – Where have all the good guys gone????

Mystic Maid By Mystic Maid, 2nd Jun 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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My experiences with Internet Dating and code words.

Where have all the good guys gone????

I had recently joined an internet dating site. Somehow this year seemed like the right time to meet someone. All I asked was that they were single… divorced or widowed and definitely NORMAL!
I have been solicited by one gentleman who wanted to be spanked.
One of them liked KISSING… it took me awhile till I finally figured out that KISSING was a code for something else.
I did meet one gentleman for coffee once. He had old world charm. He was also OLD … he lied that he was 25 years younger. We ended up having a coffee at Starbucks and talking about his daughter who was much older than me.
Quite a few much, much younger men are out there looking for cougars or sugar mommas.
I spoke to one man who sounded interesting but he couldn’t find the coffee shop on the map.
I have also noticed a bunch of men that pose shirtless…. I don’t want to know what that is about.
One gentleman was looking for a lady to take care of him. Preferably she would have a property in the southern hemisphere because he liked to go there for the winter months. He also preferred if she had a place up north as he liked to ski. In return for being pampered he stated that he knew how to take care of a woman. He also promised that he was much better looking than his picture and that he would be a devoted, attentive escort for any lady that could afford him.
I don’t smoke and I don’t like it. I don’t want to camp or live in a trailer. How many times must I say NO Thank YOU I am allergic to cigarette smoke???? What is a social smoker????
I have 76 days left on my dating site membership and I am counting… Where are the nice, normal single men???


Dating, Experience, Internet, Kissing, Men

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I have always wanted to become a published writer. My writing is diverse, whatever subject my muse nudges me to write.

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author avatar Dj
2nd Jun 2013 (#)

I certainly agree with those comments. I did the same thinking that it was time to see who was out there and how had the dating world changed since i was a part of it so man hears ago. What a rude awaking that was. why does every dating site indicate that there service is '"FREE' . You spend quite a bit of time fine tuning your bio so it is truthful yet still inviting.. Once you get into uploading. BANG you get hit with . If you want to talk to anyone it is going to cost you $$$. Try getting ahold of the dating site and you end up with more frustration than one could imagine. I have serious doubts whether or not any of these men are real or made up. These men will tell you up front --no picture no email back but what are they including in their profiles. "i'll tell you later" and that appears about 6 times. or another "email" me and i'll send you my picture. Why would I want to get in touch with someone that can't show his face, can't answer any of the questions. What the hell are you hiding? You whine that there are no real women yet you hide behind anonymity of "I'll tell you later'
There were a couple of sites I had subscribed to and thankfully they are coming to an end. I am sorry t say this has been a colossal waste of time and money.

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author avatar Retired
2nd Jun 2013 (#)

looks like all of them are oriented to business...........seemed like that to me now.....

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author avatar Mystic Maid
2nd Jun 2013 (#)

I concur with your sentiments exactly.... back to my question: "Where have all the good men gone?"

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author avatar Retired
2nd Jun 2013 (#)

here is

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