Personality Levels..Judgements

cnwriter..carolina By cnwriter..carolina, 12th Mar 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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About some of our personality levels that can cause dissension. Learning acceptance of others and the way they do things is a step into a higher way of being.

Time of Great Changes

We are in a time period when great changes are happening and it is important that we learn to accept others and live in harmony and peace. In this way we can be part of the upliftment of the planet and of ourselves.
Personality levels can often lead to dissension so it behoves us to learn acceptance and by this I mean accepting how another is Not having to be like them but being ok with how and whom they are and what they do.

Judging others

We should become aware that people most of the time are doing the best they can with the information they have. We tend, however, to judge others by what is going on in ourselves, or we forget that everybody is different: different childhood upbringing; different schooling; different karmic patterns to work through; different financial backgrounds; different ethnic patterns and all these circumstances make each person different in their manifestation, in their ways of seeing the world and doing things. Very often conflicts are caused because of these differences.
It is not easy to have other people see things the way we see them or think the way we think, or do things the way we do them when we are caught up in our own rightness..righteousness..

Right is in the Eye of the Beholder

Right is in the eye of the beholder. Your right is right for you and their right is right for them and no one has the right to inflict their opinion upon another. A way round this is to explain how your way works for you then perhaps the other person can learn something they can incorporate into their way.
If you do this in a loving way, the other person will take more notice. They may not do it your way but they will have the information to use as and when they will.
Information can be likened to a seed the flower does not bloom straight away but as the elements combine to water, nourish and warm it, so in its own time it will unfold and blossom.
So it is with our learning from others.

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Acceptance, Differences, Judgements, Personality Levels, Right, Righteousness, Rightness, Wrong

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
I have been writing on food, wine, travel, cosmic creation and erotica for over 30 years I do horoscopes and numerology and light readings.

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author avatar Md Rezaul Karim
12th Mar 2012 (#)

Good point of views and analysis. Thanks for sharing.

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author avatar Delicia Powers
12th Mar 2012 (#)

Very wise and good guides my friend... thank you

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author avatar Buzz
12th Mar 2012 (#)

Each of us has their own model of the world and acts accordingly. It's no surprise our ideas or opinions clash sometimes (or many times) or how we see things differently. Insightful essay, Carolina. Love and hugs, Buzz

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
12th Mar 2012 (#)

thank you all for reading this...

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author avatar Denise O
12th Mar 2012 (#)

I think we can all have a opinion and can respect that others have their own opinions. Now as far as facts, they should be presented as just that, facts. But as long as you state it is of your opinion, then I say, write or speak all you want. Nice read. Made ya go, hmmm. Thank you for sharing.:)

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
12th Mar 2012 (#)

Well Denise, I sure do appreciate your giving me permission to write and speak...I did not know I had to have that from another writer...

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
13th Mar 2012 (#)

When I present before another my position, I will wait for their response. I do learn too from how others think. If I feel I am right, I put across my position peruasively, and mostly, that clinches the deal! Thanks cnw, for a nice take - siva

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