Power of the Female Form, the Challenge for the Man

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Taking a sexually explicit journey through erotic thoughts and experiences, this article has explicit images alongside adventurous erotic thoughts and the pleasure in this world that is womankind. If you have frail sensitivity do not read.

Mother's Breast, the Beginning?

One of the first things you will have experienced in your life would have been your mother's breast providing you with the essentials of life, when asked many men remember suckling on their mother's breast (although this may be a false memory). Psychologists postulate the breast to be a place of comfort because of our mother's attention during the first months of our life and the feelings associated with those early days may be why some women develop lesbian attractions. Yet for most men the form of the breast is so important and snuggling close in to the breast is not only a source of comfort in the form of intimate, skin on skin hugs, but during the course of sexual intimacy driving desires to a climax.

Female breasts come in all shapes and sizes from hard to soft but they are an essential part of the female anatomy and key in sexual activities, an organ whose essence will never leave our life, driving so many desires.

Sexual Feeling

The female breast has a vital social role to play, even in those societies which demand it be covered it does not stay hidden for long, in Saudi Arabia women and young girls are forced to wear the Abaya, a black coverall that covers women while they are in public, which is supposed to make the female form invisible, yet young, blossoming, teenage girls who are turning into woman find ways to display their figure to perspective boyfriends, they show themselves off in the Arabian malls to boys who never approach in public.

It was while traveling on the Underground in London, many months before, when I first encountered a young woman wearing this black coverall, she was standing and I couldn't help looking and I noticed something I had seen with western women, supported by the fact that her garment was shaped to fit the curves of her body, it was possible to see there was no under-garments, no knicker line, no bra buckle. The conclusion was that under the Abaya this young woman was naked, very naked, so much for hiding it all from view, this was all later confirmed by an Arab friend who showed me how they congregate in malls flirting with boys and secretly flouting the laws about contact between the sexes. In the rest of the world the female form, in particular the breast, is used as a form of sexual desire to sell products, anything from soap to sports cars, the form of the female breast though is the most natural of things and the most desirable and has been found to drive a yearning both in men and women.

Each heterosexual man may have a different preference when it comes to the form of the female breast but sexually encountering the right shape is a large part of building desire for an individual woman, the curve of the breast (even when covered) triggers certain feelings in the man (even if the woman cannot be touched sexually) which may be the reason why certain actresses desire to wear the skimpiest of outfits when attending functions like the Oscars and if the nipple should 'accidentally' show then perhaps the sexual desire of a director may land them their next role because she is now a hot commodity.

Breasts come in all shapes and sizes and that is essential because somewhere there is a man for every woman, trouble is some men are so fickle and desire something new every week, turned on by the new display of feminine sexuality as and when it happens.

Sensuality and Shapes

The breast can be anywhere between soft and hard, from almost nothing to extra large, yet turn a woman on and its likely her nipples will become hard, and she will be ready for you.

Long ago I experienced something unusual and only really understood it in reflection with the passage of time, I was travelling in a rush hour underground train, west bound from Central London on the Central Line, for those of you who know it, there were no seats available so I had no choice but to stand and very soon it was packed, there was a young woman behind me, so close that she was touching my back, being warmer weather there was no need for a jacket and I could feel her breasts pressed hard up against my back, after several stops the carriage was less packed, but I could still feel her breasts pressed firmly against my back. A little while later I got a seat, yet as I changed my position she was still pressed hard up against me, but a couple of stops later, at Hanger Lane she left the train and I never saw her again. Looking back on this incident I now recall she had been standing there not only pressing her breasts hard up against me, but her nipples were hard and calling for me to respond which when I look back to the incident I wonder why I didn't but of course that was a lifetime ago and there are no guarantees in life and I have no regrets about what may or may not have unfolded.

Talking of shapes and sizes I have seen many and have always been fascinated by the female shape and its impact on sexual feeling, but of course each man has his own preference and there is no single perfect shape, it is all personal in its impact, each man reacts differently to each body and situation. My mother was just about 5 ft tall and petite for everything, it has been said that many men base their choice of woman on the shape/size of their mother, yet there was only one woman I ever dated that was similar in build, a French lady I saw many months before meeting my wife. I forget her name but remember talking about desires and it was clear that although we liked each other very much indeed we were looking for different things and she was not at that time looking to settle down, although sexually we were compatible.

Over time I have encountered many different women and they all had their own desires but each has a unique personality and body shape and I am sure they had their personal hopes and dreams.

The Phallus

Men certainly react to the women they encounter but then women also react to the men in their presence, how do they decide between two equally desirable men? This is an important question because it is women who control the relationships they enter into and what type of relationship it becomes, selection criteria differ according to what they desire at that time - the man they wish to have a fling with may be entirely different from the one they marry.

The phallus, or erect penis, can be an object of desire, yet in a crowded bar this is not what a woman sees when she is sizing up the prospective man she desires, she is sensitive to things a man rarely sees or reacts to, for a man his erect size relates to desirability, power, omnipotence and even his potential for godhood at least in respect of urban legend, but a woman does not look at the man in the same way. Sexually women desire the phallus and hence are attracted to men, but that is only a part of the desire, is female sexuality rational, civilized and act as a balancing force in relationships they engage in? Or is that desire base, animalistic and ravenous - just as described in relation to male sexual desire? Much depends on the situation and in reality it is largely women that control the relationships they enter into, they have to ability to give or deny pleasure.

The sex drive in women seems to come more from pheromones and hormones then it does from the image of the erect penis, man may be driven by images but women need a real man.

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  • Female silhouette sun by layoutsparks.com
  • curvology by independent.ie
  • Sex Silhouette by Spreadshirt co uk

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author avatar Randhir Bechoo
15th May 2015 (#)

Interesting share.

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author avatar writershirley lopez
16th May 2015 (#)

Very interesting material

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author avatar Retired
16th May 2015 (#)

To quote Robin Williams: "God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time"!

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author avatar Peter B. Giblett
16th May 2015 (#)

John, very appropriate.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
17th May 2015 (#)

One of a kind post from you Peter, you did have time to think about life in general while recovering from cornea transplant!

Men and women are so much alike, yet emotionally quite different! It is said one cannot live with the other, and also cannot live without the other!

Sexual desires are one thing but a sound marriage life is another. After the birth of children the priorities change for wife and husband but some do keep the romance all their lives and I salute them! That needs perfect chemistry in relationship that is quite rare.
I recall John Arlott's words when commenting on Ashes cricket series at Lords in 1975 when a streaker ran across the pitch "a sight some women would not have experienced for a long time"!

Whatever our beliefs are our carnal desires are among many that unite us as one. Law of physical attraction is from primordial times for all species and that keeps creation humming - siva

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author avatar Peter B. Giblett
17th May 2015 (#)

Siva, most of the thinking of this was complete before my transplant operation. I remember the cricket streaker at Lords when it happened (not from a repeat) and it drew quite a lot of discussion in certain circles at the time but streaking as a whole does not relate to sexual drive and desire.

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author avatar snerfu
17th May 2015 (#)

Streaking created a different perspective of cricket but the sexual inundation remained very much obscure since we were small when such incidents occurred
Procreation is a fundamental duty of man and though some treat it as a recreational pursuit, the importance does not diminish.The world may be turning to test tube babies in the future but for the present the world looks to the female and her sexual charms.
Good article.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
18th May 2015 (#)

Snerfu, am I seeing a trend of women ejecting men from their lives with a thought - good riddance of a nuisance? siva

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author avatar snerfu
18th May 2015 (#)

We eat food to remain healthy, but the work remains for those will do it.
Maybe it is an old story or sand in the shoes.
For sure, both men and women need each other.
I was just busy thinking about the future trends.

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author avatar Peter B. Giblett
18th May 2015 (#)

Not sure that I agree procreation to be a fundamental duty. I do agree we need food for sustenance, but we also need to feed our brains and our sensual self and this is where our sex drive comes into play.

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author avatar Carol Roach
18th May 2015 (#)

well I was never breast fed and neither was my son. As far as meeting a man, the eyes is what first attracts most women, there have been many studies on this, after that it is up for grabs,

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author avatar Peter B. Giblett
18th May 2015 (#)

Thank you Carol. I know there have been many studies and there will continue to be many opinions of this subject till the end of time.

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author avatar Tranquilpen
18th May 2015 (#)

A titillating and tasteful glimpse of arguably one of the most exhilarating of experiences mortals can have, Your post has captured that precise moment, when there is that subtle, connection of flesh against flesh, separated only by the weave of gossamer garments. Both pulses racing with anticipation and primal lust. I recall a similar occasion many years ago, where I was directly and wantonly propositioned by a vivacious and classy lady who after excusing herself from her partner, walked across the restaurant floor to where I sat, waiting for my attractive young wife to return from the powder room. This desirable creature quietly stooped down and with her hot lips brushing warmly against my earlobe, she whispered these incredible words:"I want you right here and now, I am having a huge, ****** right here as I speak, sadly nothing will ever come of this, I just needed you to know what a powerful effect you are having on me, a total stranger, we are merely two ships passing each other in the night." and with a gentle squeeze on my shoulder, she returned to her waiting partner on the other side of the room.. I have no idea how she managed to explain her actions to him, my wife fortunately was out of sight at the time. The rest of the evening it was as if I had imagined all of this, right up to the moment they got up to leave, when she provocatively parted her thighs directly at me as she stood up. and vanished, never to be seen again. I have often wondered about what might have been, even to this day, 30 years on, I am still haunted by that mysterious phantom of desire.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
19th May 2015 (#)

I am inspired by Tranquilpen to add another comment - the female form can transport even an elderly man to revisit his youthful times and savor for a moment the good old days, though with a wishful thinking! siva

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author avatar Peter B. Giblett
20th May 2015 (#)

Andre, what a wonderful summation of the momentary feeling, it sums up the fleeting passion that can seemingly exist, but do you give up something lasting for that fleeting moment?

Siva, There is no reason why passion and desire cannot run through the veins of an elder man.

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author avatar Tranquilpen
22nd May 2015 (#)

An eternal debate to which, for me at least, there is no crystal clear answer. The experience, albeit a fleeting one at that, has succeeded in greatly enhancing my endorphins, making those bitter-sweet words:":"I want you right here and now, I am having a huge, C****x, right here as I speak," that much more special, since I had never again been at the receiving end of anything remotely as flattering since.

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