Right defense intimacy after marriage

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Everyone has a role in the relationship and there is a purpose for the greater good, it is not about whether it's your money or his money

Right defense intimacy after marriage

Many young couples get married when the relationship is not able to maintain until the end of the old. For those who are troubled marriage, spending time with friends it feels like walking on a minefield that could potentially destroy the relationship.
Even in a marriage that looks happy, the online survey conducted by Media Woman's Day and AOL Living in 2009 said 72% of women have ever thought of divorce at one time in their marriage. Yet despite the many obstacles in their relationship, 71% of women believe will remain with her husband until death.
Each phase in the marriage had problems each, and how to keep the relationship in the face of these problems. Here's how to do.

• Consider the size of the waist
Spouses tend to have larger waist size. This is related to sexual attraction and general health.
A 2007 study published in the New England Journal of Medicine found that the chances of becoming obese increased by 37% if the spouse is also obese. It is important to maintain a healthy diet because there is a tendency to eat larger portions when eating with 33%.
To avoid the fat trap, spend time together to find healthy groceries at the local market on the weekend. In addition it could also schedule a joint exercise.

• Nearly 40% of married couples efflux lie about their spending money to each other according to a survey in 2004. Money is the main reason why couples often fight, and relationships tend to be a lot of conflict when economic conditions were difficult.

• Discuss financial rules as a couple. Ken Robbins, a professor of psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin said unhealthy for couples to have the same philosophy about money.
"But the financial issues should be resolved as soon as possible. You want to decide who will pay the bill, how much is reasonable expenditure, and how you will record all of the expenses.

• specify the rules of the family
encourage each family should have a view on how they run.
"People often do not realize that they are married to the idea of ​​a family picture as a picture of how their families with parents.
Bringing such a view can lead to marital conflict from the smallest thing. Especially when children are present in the family. Couples may have different views on how children should be treated and what should be done to spend time with family.
"You need to know how you can live happily together while maintaining their personal.

• Make sex a priority instead of a task
Make sex a priority but not necessarily written in the memorandum of the plan. Obstetrician and gynecologist at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, Andrew Goldstein said if the scheduled sex, it becomes a liability the same as taking out the trash.
Average married couples have sex about 58 times per year, or more than once a week. In this regard a recent study says 90% of couples feel that satisfaction decreases after the birth of their first child.

• Flexible
Made any plans ranging from the financial to the homework assignment is likely to change as time passes. For example, when the couples who work lose their jobs or otherwise, it could have an impact on the rules that have been made ​​previously.

Have an open discussion about how the household chores can help couples facing changing transition difficult.


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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
12th Jul 2014 (#)

Hey I have a perfect hour glass figure infact a Size 8 figure and that is after marriage and kids.

Marriage is not about eating and shitting and putting things in crevices its respect, commitment and responsibility.
Marriage of sex is not an union but just for physical satiation that even a prostitute can give.
I am married and no sex happening as the husband is mentally disabled.

I have kids too... And a perfect figure.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
12th Jul 2014 (#)

Nice post. Marriage survives on give and take - certainly not one giving and the other taking! And one should not try to change the other against their free will - siva

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author avatar rafiyanto
13th Jul 2014 (#)

thanks so much for his comments, and as that's what its supposed to

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