Shouldn't close friends be forever?

vickylass By vickylass, 11th Nov 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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No married woman should forget her past friends, because after being separated from her husband, she will feel way too lonely.

Shouldn't close friends be forever?

It is only human that all of us wish to meet someone to marry or just to become partners. It doesn't make much of a difference. Loneliness isn't a good company. All of us make friends since childhood and perhaps one of these friends becomes our special friend with whom we'd like to share everything for the rest of our lives or till divorce do part us.
This is human and it is right to do so. However, I wonder why some women forget about their friends after they have married.
Is it right?
Women that had a group of close friends when they were single. They shared problems, joys and secrets and even their own clothes. They went on outings often enough and did a lot of things together. Then, on one day, they married and they forgot that they once had friends. Apart from having invited them to their weddings, they seldom called the others to do some thing or just to keep in contact.
It may be that many women, when they marry, tend to regard their married life as the most important in their lives and their friends seem to be part of their past lives.
It doesn't happen like this with men. Even if they have happy married lives, they don't seem to forget their pals easily and there seems to be space and time for them to do any of the things they loved doing when single.
Such attitude from women is wrong, because no matter how happy we are in our marrying lives, nothing lasts forever. People change as the years roll on and a relationship isn't the same after some years of marriage. It may end and when it does, it'll be hard to start a new life again.
After having been divorced or separated, one may be tempted to contact those close friends again, because loneliness isn't good company for long.
I wonder what Mary is doing on these days, a separated woman may think. Then, she picks the telephone to find out.
This Mary may have moved, changed address or telephone number or she may have even died. If one's lucky enough, one will get this Mary at the other end of the line, but even when she may be glad to hear from her friend, she may also sound distant as though they have never been close friends.
Passing times, changes people and as the song says “distance means oblivion”.
A woman should never forget her close friends after she's married, because on separation she will find herself very lonely. Close friends may feel that they have been used.
Keeping one's friends and having a social life apart from the married one is even the best way to keep one's marriage well.
No married woman can be this busy to meet friends at a given time for a talk or an outing. This also human.

© Copyright Vicky Pino. November 11th 2015.

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author avatar peachpurple
12th Nov 2015 (#)

best friends and close friends are different. Best friends are someone who knows you from top to toe, close friends might not

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author avatar vickylass
17th Nov 2015 (#)

I'm afraid you haven't grasped what I intended to say.

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author avatar Fern Mc Costigan
16th Nov 2015 (#)

Well stated Vicky!

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