Stay Connected With Thyself

Maumita By Maumita, 10th Apr 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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How many times you sought for help or support from your nepotic when u flounders? How many of you don’t like to be alone at all? How many times you blamed others for getting a futile result? How many times you have tried to look for a person with whom u can share your problems and sorrows?

Stay Connected With Thyself

How many times you sought for help or support from your nepotic when u flounders? How many of you don’t like to be alone at all? How many times you blamed others for getting a futile result? How many times you have tried to look for a person with whom u can share your problems and sorrows?

I am sure gobs of time and we all do it. But tell me who was it, who was really hurt when tear rolls down your cheek? Who was there all the time with you starting from your birth till your end?– Its ‘you’!! Being with yourself starting from your birth till end is what I think must be the longest and most loyal relationship we follow.

In my bad times, it was ‘me’ who always pushed myself ahead, pulled me up when I was on pitfall, always gave me the inner strength to confront the most confounding and daunting situations in life., it was ‘me’ who rewarded my self with the gift I love on attaining victory over some tiny achievement. I am my own best friend.

Why to find solace from outer bodies when we can find it in ourselves only. Ask yourself for help, strength, support, courage, conviction and see whether it gives u back or not. Life is like a novel, a book. It comprises of several chapters which always taught us to grow constantly. Sometimes few chapters teaches us to fight back by fortifying the ‘problem’ but we fear to be courageous and don’t turn over the page and hence the Life stuck there. Try to find out the cause of your problem and eradicate it. Believe me, there are minimum 5 alternative solutions to each and every problem. Have a strong mind to chose and imply it because you can’t solve a problem by the same thinking u created it. Try to look out the best lesson in worst situation and move on, because time never stops for any damn one. Know yourself first because it’s more important and better that knowing others.

Here is a quick peek from my personal experience, how can you know yourself better and make best out of yourself in any situation in just 5 ways.

Work towards your goal
Even god has provided the best food a bird can have but ofcourse not to their nest. Go out; move your hands and legs; use your brain in every situation. Ask those 5 alternative solutions from yourself which u can do to overcome the challenging situation, pick up the best and imply it. Don’t ask outsiders but ask innersider.

Jot down some favorites.
5 dishes u love;
5 things u love to do;
5 movies u can watch anyday, anytime;
5 songs which makes your day;
5 friends u love to spend time with (no bf no gf only f, dnt get it wrong too u dirty mind)

Now, you got 5x5 options i.e. 25 things which always bring that smile to your life. Try any of these options each day to make your day enliven even more. It’ll give you those extra smiles after all these small happiness adds on ‘spark’ to your life and makes it even more rocking.

5-min meditation
In today’s busy world one even forget to smile while looking at the mirror and getting ready for the endeavor. Just spend 5 min for yourself each day. Refrain your mind from any kinds of thoughts (any includes everything, starting from you to your life) for 5 min. Take a deep inhale and then exhale out the negativity- the problems, the worries. Do it everyday and then see the magic.

Lock your brain with positivity
Don’t allow the negative thoughts to enter, occupy the mind with good thoughts, because damaging thoughts can make u enervated. The moment your mind diverts towards negativity start playing sudoku or puzzle games or read the newspaper or the delhitimes if u like because that’s the only newspaper I consider ;). Then your mind will be accustomed to the positivity and will start working as antivirus in your hard disc and would never allow the virus to infect your hardware again. Try it.

Healthy you
Please allow me to take you till your mirror.
Look at yourself for a jiffy. Stop being a narcissist now!!
Tell me, what’s that thing about you which you can change from your diet??
What about that flab in your tummy, what bout your hair or skin and last but not the least what bout your feet, nails, lips which we often forget to even glance in such busy schedule (Guys!! It also goes for you…look yourself for the same)
What next then!! Ask google, it’ll give you enormous alternatives to all your queries but pick only that which suits you the best and be committed to it coz u r not doing wrong to anyone else if you are not following the same but ofcourse you are cheating yourself…check that u don’t!!

So, they were some ordinary tips and hope it will work for you to become an extraordinary ‘You’. Finally I would like to conclude that u just need to love yourself and stay connected. Enjoy the journey called ‘Life’ with ‘Yourself’.

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Life, Life Experiences, Life Journey, Life Lessons, Life-Skills Abilities

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author avatar Debashree
11th Apr 2012 (#)

Maumiiii.... Wt a article....U no dis morning i was listing my questions n problems. Nw i feel same time u were listing answer to my questions... Really got a readymate solver answar paper of life... <3 u loadz ma dearine.... God bless!!! MIles to go...

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author avatar Maumita
11th Apr 2012 (#)

Thankyou baby..muaahhh...:) Glad, it helped you. :)

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author avatar Maumita
11th Apr 2012 (#)

Thank you Mr. Kinsman for the approval :)

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
11th Apr 2012 (#)

For me, I change what I can for the better, and accept those that I cannot - and that means I have to accept a lot! One needs to embrace life and be part of nature. Variety is the spice of life - there is no good without the bad, so they alternate for everyone. Thanks for the musings. Maumita - siva

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author avatar Maumita
11th Apr 2012 (#)

I completely agree with you sir. ''Variety is indeed the spice of life''. Thankyou for your time Sir.

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author avatar jotomy
11th Apr 2012 (#)

Nice article about positive attitude

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author avatar Maumita
11th Apr 2012 (#)

I am glad you liked it. Thank you :)

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author avatar Tranquilpen
11th Apr 2012 (#)

This article is exactly what is needed with regards to positivity in the world. Thank you.

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author avatar Maumita
11th Apr 2012 (#)

Thank you Sir. I am glad you liked it and thank you for your time :)

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author avatar Rathnashikamani
11th Apr 2012 (#)

These are not ordinary tips. They're extra ordinary.

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author avatar Maumita
11th Apr 2012 (#)

OMG...Sir, u said a lot...seriously, your statement means a lot to me. Thank you :)

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author avatar Retired
11th Apr 2012 (#)

Excellent musings, Maumita. Namaste

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author avatar Maumita
12th Apr 2012 (#)

Thank you Ma'am :) I am glad you liked it.

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author avatar yellowzigzag
12th Apr 2012 (#)

pick ones self up and get right back in to the fight.( my dad was a boxer.) understand you post perfectly

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author avatar Maumita
15th Apr 2012 (#)

Thats what exactly life is. We need to keep moving because time never stops for enybody or anything. I am glad you liked it :)

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author avatar Priyanka Sarode
14th Apr 2012 (#)

It's excellent!!!

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author avatar Maumita
15th Apr 2012 (#)

Thank you priyanka :)

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author avatar Delicia Powers
15th Apr 2012 (#)

Very nicely done Maumita:0)

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author avatar Maumita
16th Apr 2012 (#)

Thank you Delicia :)

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author avatar sarosh
16th Apr 2012 (#)

Liked your way of writing here

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author avatar Maumita
17th Apr 2012 (#)

Thank you sarosh :)

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author avatar Mini Bhatia
19th Jun 2012 (#)

very inspiring

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