Struck by an Ominous Confusion

Ian Mendoza By Ian Mendoza, 12th Sep 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/p-3lewqc/
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Would you allow yourself to be struck by one of the mysteries of life?

Happiness is...

I know it’s out of nowhere, but let me ask you something – What is happiness?
Have I got you? Have you answered that in less than 10 seconds?
Did I hear something like – “Happiness is being happy” or something along the lines?

Let me share you the story behind all this, we’re all in this together, right? (Wink) Everything started when I tried to make someone happy. I really want her to smile, be glad, show her beautiful smile again. Well, her smile definitely brings “happiness” to me. But here comes the problem, I just can’t make her smile.
Of course, for various reasons, we tend to be depressed and sad, but I’ve always thought that “happiness” or “being happy” is a choice. Now, is being happy really a choice?
I tried jokes, sweet things, flashback of happy memories and to my desperation I even tried to get her mad. Because you know it would be better if she will just get angry at me instead of being depressed all by herself. The result was shockingly epic fail. Maybe all she need is time. Time heals all wounds, right?
But having an ever-questioning mind, why it didn’t work? Have I misunderstood the basic premises of happiness? This confusion is really getting into me. I’m not a psychologist or something, but I want to understand happiness a bit more for the very purpose of being ready for the next time she gets depressed again.
Is happiness acquired? Is it something you get intentionally or it’s automatic? Or maybe, happiness is given. When you hear some good jokes, the joke itself gives you happiness and some jokes or something just can’t give you happiness. That maybe the reason why some people laugh at jokes and some people don’t. Or maybe it’s a combination of both. Some things give you happiness, and sometimes you acquire happiness, or sometimes it just come to you and just makes you feel happy.
And here I am. I don’t even know why her smile brings happiness to me. And I don’t even know if that sentence is theoretically right.
I believe that if I…if we could understand just a bit about “happiness” itself, then we can really be more authentically happy.
WHAT IS HAPPINESS?
I think this deserves a spot in our chain of thoughts. I want to hear from you. Sharing your opinion would make me “happy”. Hahaha

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