The Woes of Being Single

PeaceMaster By PeaceMaster, 8th Nov 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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It's tough being single but it does seem to be the only safe choice in life. The feeling and need for companionship would be strong but there are pros and cons of being single as much as being in a matrimonial union. Domestic violence has become both a social and gender issue now in today's society. Both men and women can either be victims or abusive partners. Yet we all need help wherever possible.

The Challenges of Being Single

It's tough being single. It's hard to live by yourself when you are alone and you got no companion to enjoy the fun times you had by yourselves. The wonderful moments that you had could be a great time that you could be spending with special person you could love.
But those are just dreams. Here's the reality now,it's very hard to find the right person who can be your true companion for life. Treachery,infidelity,dishonesty,disloyalty and even mistrust has become a new norm in today's society.
Recently,I have observed that most marriages have ended tragically and very sadly. I feel deep pity and sympathy for those who were broken at heart. Betrayal has become man's mortal enemy as much as treachery. It actually destroys a man/woman completely thus leaving them in total darkness. Without any hope and joy left in their lives. Domestic violence also has a huge major role in this category. At the end of this all,both men and women are the same in a sense that they both have suffered tremendously. Both men and women needs help to cope with these emotional/mental breakdown in their ordeals. They need comfort and love with the hope that good and love still exists.
As human beings,we all need to show that we truly cared about each other. Not like most people in this world who would seem willing bring down others because they can't get what they want. Or they can' tget full satisfaction. No! We cannot be selfish nor self-centered nor inconsiderate. At the end of it,we too would want people to help us when we in need of help.


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I'm currently living in Trinidad,a Caribbean island in the West Indies. Right now I'm employed as a security guard and I'm looking for better income. I'm no nonsense guy and I don't accept abuse.

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