True Love and Waiting....

Akansha Goel By Akansha Goel, 10th Jul 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Love is about making sacrifices but not compromises. It is necessary to have faith and trust in any relation rather than proving the relation at different point in time because its not an exam. If you make a mistake then you always have a second chance to improve it in case of love. we don't need to put our lives on hold just for the sake of other or to get other..

The Diary starts with many questions in mind.. Like the following...

Love.......
A feeling which makes us forget every thing of our life,
a feeling with which we want to shine like a star for someone,
a feeling which makes our heart to beat for someone else,
a feeling which makes us realize that our breathe is not only ours.....
A very beautiful emotion in which we forget our own-self just for the sake of our partner and in most cases we love to do that..!!
But...
Is it necessary to always have a soft corner for the person we love a lot?
Is it always necessary to wait for someone for a long time just to prove our love?
Is it compulsory to always forgive that person for every mistake they do?
Is it always necessary to bow down and say sorry even if we are not wrong, just to save the relation?
Is their any hard and fast rule which defines the strength of any relationship..... No..!!!
These questions have no answers because everyone has their own perception but why do we need to prove our love at any point...

Is it not enough that someone is trusting you in a blind-fold manner, and still you break their trust just because you are not sure that your relation will work out in the future or not..
These questions always make a pause in my life and force me to think that will I be able to ever love a person in the most passionate manner and that person will trust me fully....
What do you think?

People spend their whole life just by waiting for their dear ones because they think that they will look back someday and will make way with them but why they don't understand that proofs and justifications are needed in those places where their is no trust. We don't need to spoil our future and career just by waiting....
If the second person knows our value then they will definitely return in a positive manner and if they don't value us then they will never look back...

In that case we may not be the correct option for them and vice versa.
What do you think...??.....
...................some questions remain unanswered...................

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Feelings, Life, Love, Love And Soul, Love Romance Definition What Is It, Loved Ones, Passions And Desires, Waiting

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author avatar Akansha Goel
I believe that "Imagination is the power that we cannot even imagine.. So we should keep on imagining at every point of time..!! "

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author avatar Socrates
10th Jul 2015 (#)

Well written. I believe that if we make love an another human compulsion, we fortify our limitation. Love should be acquired like knowledge, then we will understand everything. Keep writing. Cheers.

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author avatar Socrates
10th Jul 2015 (#)

Well written. I believe that if we make love an another human compulsion, we fortify our limitation. Love should be acquired like knowledge, then we will understand everything. Keep writing. Cheers.

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author avatar Akansha Goel
10th Jul 2015 (#)

Thanks for understanding my point of view.. Because this can be a topic of debate for many..

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
11th Jul 2015 (#)

I have seen many types of love that sustained. Earlier times, arranged marriage was the order of the day in India and many managed to find love, at least stayed together, based on whatever common ideals, ground, they had. A joke was, it was love after marriage, not before! Now it is more of own choice, but the mistake could well be people forget what attracted them to each other. Some try to change the other and that I feel is a recipe for disaster!

Love should be based on mutual respect, give and take but not one giving and the other just taking! Thanks for this share Akansha - siva

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author avatar Akansha Goel
17th Jul 2015 (#)

@Siva- Sir, I agree to your point... :)

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