When Judgment is Detrimental

Marcus Writes By Marcus Writes, 20th Nov 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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It is human weakness to judge others immediately without prior knowledge of the greater picture. Like a bolt of lightning they strike with their baseless opinions and in effect causing chaos among others.

Never Render Prior Judgment

I witness another incident which explicitly shows a backward step in human nature. Earlier, our bathroom was fixed since the flush is not working as intended. The plumber forgot to clean the bathroom before leaving thus mud and shoe prints are all over the bathroom tiles. When of the housemates arrived later tonight and witnessed the grand mess.

She, without hesitation, began ranting and calling people nasty names. She slammed the door with all her might and kept yelling. She was not contented with her flare so she asked some roommates for an alliance. The scene was followed with greater chaos as they were three ranting and whining about the mess. The other two recruits never asked for the reason behind. They just followed the blind-folded leader.
Before situation gets worst, someone explained to them the reason behind the messy bathroom and that’s when they stopped but never asks apology for the premature complaints and how bad they called people in the house.

Passing judgment without concrete evidence only destroys relationships. Human sometimes gets consumed with the “emotion” that logic is compromised. Tons of arguments and wars have risen due to misunderstanding by jumping into conclusions right away.

To avoid unnecessary crisis with relationships due to unfounded accusations, I follow simple these simple steps:

1. Recognize the emotions but don’t throw it right away

2. Know the stories. I usually investigate the root cause of the problem by asking people and finding reliable evidences

3. Conclude based on facts but never placed the verdict on anyone. “Hate the act but not the people”

4. Resolve the issue. Find a positive approach to resolve the issue as a team. Rather than resort to the blame game, work creatively with the group.

Jumping to conclusion maybe the easiest way to deal with it but it comes with much greater problems. Before choosing the negative approach, take a deep breath and remember that there’s always a more democratic and positive way to deal with things.

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Communication, Democratic, Ethics, Judgment, Relationship, Values

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
20th Nov 2015 (#)

In workplace or family one has to chip in to help as blaming another becomes an endless cycle.

Most of what I do has to be done and I don't see that as another's work as most fall in the general category - siva

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