how to find love by loving yourself first

Thepsalmist By Thepsalmist, 6th Apr 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL
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Love is truly a hard thing to conquer but love is really simple and I'm gonna show you how.

loving yourself

Love is something many people do not fully understand. To understand love you must first understand why loving yourself is the biggest key to find love. In order to find love you must first have love for yourself. A lot of people is looking for love to fill a void; that they themselves only can fill. To have love for someone else without first loving yourself is some what impossible; though it can happen yet one or both parties will be unhappy. Loving yourself is really not hard to do though many would beg to differ. Most people have been talked down to, talked about, and or laughed at; which puts a dent in one's self esteem. So people end up having to rebuild their self esteem. A lot of people fail at rebuilding their self esteem because yet still they look to others to do it for them. Which is yet another big mistake. Self esteem is easy to conquer but hard to keep if you put it in the hand of others. One way to achieve good self esteem is to get over how people feel about you. We must realize that everyone is going to have an opinion ..but we don't have to live and die by the opinions of others. Another way to build up self esteem is find some you like about yourself rather it be something you do good or how you can see the beauty in things...... build on that. Even if no one know why you are awesome you are suppose to know why. Wake up saying "I'm awesome" or "I'm beautiful" everyday and stand in the mirror or sit in a quiet space until you come to believe ultimately what you want others to see in you. In doing this you are one step closer to finding love.


Esteem, Love, Self

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6th Apr 2015 (#)

Yes, self esteem can be a barrier. I hope one day I will find love.

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6th Apr 2015 (#)

You will ....You really got to have patience. Love belongs to all of us. But it starts with loving yourself first.

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