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Love is a special and complicated emotion which is quite difficult to understand. Although most people believe that love revolves around the heart, it actually occurs in the brain.

Do you love or want to Learn the art of Love

I do not know how to write the word about Love. From the age of Genesis till now the world is remain by the Love. I do not want to provide evidence that I am Love Guru or Messiah of Love however I believe somewhere or some one or some how love still exists .If you sense the love you can found everywhere.
The world is totally developed and Science has modernized the thinking level of every human. People started to believe in materialistic World better than emotional plays. How ever Human being can not apart from the “Love” in daily life.

I do have dog in my street, once it meets me usually gratitude by his tails and face…I will feel pity and feed him every day. Some time I misbehave Give him the Bread ,Even it never response or touch what had I given to him, it makes me very insult that even for the animals we have to give respect, love and Kindness .

If you talk about human being surely they do have high expectations in Daily or Social life. People can not understand what the truly love is if they started to understand in Real society there would no fight, no poverty, no war…Just imagine the society will get just harmony, Peace and Love. It booms more with each other and resulted the Love brings more prosper in relationships and Materialistic Life automatically. By the understanding of so many things our ego, pride, belief and Foolishness make us difference between every human being , for an example see the ants how constructed team they are always in unity to simple task …then are we example like ants? Not only that even you can take the example of bee which give us the honey how systematic they do the Work, They are not corrupted like us. They are not selfish more like human Beings.

“But we keep ego, pride, greed and monocracy to lead our Top life in society where the Cruelty and inhuman Behave automatically Happens.”

Have you ever think once that each of the human life is very precious .We came nude and will leave the world as nude then why we needed Highly Greedily life, or We require more papers or Metals.
Are We Aware about ecology and earth, Are we thinking about the next generation. if we impure the earth by pollution, corruption and make shortage of fuel how our next generation will adopt their life.
If we are doing hard for our Generation then why do not we have common sense by our activities the world may destroyed.

Now we already face So many hazards, Disease, Disaster and So many things the Nature or God or Supreme Power had not cursed us. We bring that Disaster by our selfishness and Foolishness.

“There is no age for intelligence and commonsense”.

If the people are religious, did not they learn from Holy books or schools or parents? Are we good citizen for our country or Earth .If the earth had given us the life then who the hell we are to damage earth and its Natural phenomena.

I do not know why the more education bring more foolishness in people if That is true I do not want to proclaim that I am educated, For an Example If you see in your public places You can Easily view some kind of Good scene or bad scene like “No Spit Here/No Urine Here”. The Common People will search the public toilet or Hotel to bypass the Urine but I saw several time Highly Educated person do not care if someone ask him, He Reply “Who cares…? Rules are makes to break” I got such samples in society more in India. I do not know about the other Country how much they respect the Public Places, Nature, Earth and Rules.

I do not want to Comment about Person but my experience about persons are really satire I try to draft in words. If it hurts you in anyway I am very sorry but I do not give my space for them who can not understand the humanity.

Why the people search love in beauty, youth or just materials which is not permanent. True love can not define in particular word, if exists it can be categorized in different verticals.

1. Agape
2. Phileo
3. Storge
4. Eros

Love is a special and complicated emotion which is quite difficult to understand. Although most people believe that love revolves around the heart, it actually occurs in the brain. Artists, poets and painters all epitomize the heart as the love symbol, but it’s the brain that generates chemical signals to make people understand love. There are different forms and styles of expressing love. To describe these styles, the Ancient Greeks came up with four terms (Eros, storge, agape and philia) to symbolize the four types of love. Let us look at these four loves in details.

This is an unconditional love that sees beyond the outer surface and accepts the recipient for whom he/she is, regardless of their flaws, shortcomings or faults. It’s the type of love that everyone strives to have for their fellow human beings. Although you may not like someone, you decide to love them just as a human being. This kind of love is all about sacrifice as well as giving and expecting nothing in return. The translation of the word agape is love in the verb – form: it is the love demonstrated by your behavior towards another person. It is a committed and chosen love.


The phileo love refers to an affectionate, warm and tender platonic love. It makes you desire friendship with someone. It’s the kind of love which livens up the Agape love. Although you may have an agape love for your enemies, you may not have a phileo love for the same people. The translation of the word phileo is love in the noun – form: it is how you feel about someone. It is a committed and chosen love.


It is a kind of family and friendship love. This is the love that parents naturally feel for their children; the love that member of the family have for each other; or the love that friends feel for each other. In some cases, this friendship love may turn into a romantic relationship, and the couple in such a relationship becomes best friends. Storge love is unconditional, accepts flaws or faults and ultimately drives you to forgive. It’s committed, sacrificial and makes you feel secure, comfortable and safe.


Eros is a passionate and intense love that arouses romantic feelings; it is the kind that often triggers “high” feelings in a new relationship and makes you say, “I love him/her”. It is simply an emotional and sexual love. Although this romantic love is important in the beginning of a new relationship, it may not last unless it moves a notch higher because it focuses more on self instead of the other person. If the person “in love” does not feel good about their relationship anymore, they will stop loving their partner.
This just offers you a general understanding and description of the four types of love which promotes a good, healthy and progressive relationship. In any relationship, you should have all these four loves working together to enable it survive for a longer time. But in some cases, a relationship may be long-lasting if partners share the same style of love.

Are you In love …Love someone or Something or Someway in What manner Ask yourself.

Thank you for reading


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